Talks she has given are not hers - they are reflections from Torah!
When we return home we would have had a communal experience and some of our friends will have a hard time with this. So be a change maker - plant a seed and nurture it gently - don't spray and spew harshly - that doesn't give growth just pushes away. Rather, plant and nurture seeds to develop a root system to facilitate growth. Same with kids and family - when you don't see anything happen in kids behavior as long as you reinforce you are building a root system in your children. Need the right environment
The land of israel is the ecosystem for the Jewish soul
Can't come back cracking a whip. Come back kindly and softly using the tools we learned and practice the art of the paradigm shift away from blaming and complaining and allow yourself to take steps towards growth - recognize your partner as a soul mate - shift the paradigm of your family and see the sanctity and holiness of physical communication and listen to the soft whispers, and live through themes you learned, we will be able to say I learned this through what it means being a Jewish woman.
Don't preach
Stay out of people's faces
Keep your eye on your prize
Small steps.
When we ignite and warm others we ignite and warm the spark in our selves.